In a new book, Chelsea Austin describes growing up with two gay fathers in the 90’s.

Writer, speaker and life instructor Chelsea Austin I grew up with affection. “Ever since I came into my parents’ lives, it has been clear that I am the center of their universe. For better or for worse (I couldn’t do anything. I’m sure my dad had ears and eyes everywhere). Take dance classes, voice lessons and acting classes in Los Angeles County. I even set up a special desk for me in my dad’s office when he had to work on Saturdays during the tax season. My dad was there for me when the kids at school were challenging me to cope. My parents showed me that everything is possible. So, to say that I knew I would love would be a huge understatement. “This warm and cozy atmosphere was sometimes in stark contrast to the judgment of others.” Of course, outside our home, it wasn’t always easy. I had to learn at first that Politics has a way of interfering in our personal lives and not everyone will always be so open and loving towards our family.Even we were not invited for Christmas one year because one of my aunts would tell her children how my parents would sleep in the same room.My childhood This was a very interesting dynamic between the feelings of acceptance and love and the complete misunderstanding. That’s why I grew up so fast. I think it’s a blessing because it taught me resilience and I don’t understand how important it is for me to be open and loving because we’re all going through something, whether it’s obvious to the outside world or not. A. ”

Chelsea recently released its first book, Unspoken I am. “My book, Indefinitely I: A Story of Labels, Qualifications, and Refusal to Be Boxed, My love letter to the world. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. I can. I don’t understand that I am grateful that I was able to tell my story with joy and humor and that I was able to offer some more universal advice using my own experience. ” In California’s first single-parent adoption, he has already become a trailblazer from birth for a gay couple where one of the child’s parents was a sperm donor in the state (his cousin was a surrogate and brother-in-law was an egg donor). In spite of his fascination, he cherished his father. “I feel special. When I was growing up I didn’t know anyone else with gay fathers, and certainly not those with whom they were biologically related. I loved that part of my story. But it also seemed that if I came up with an instruction manual, it would probably make things easier. People always had questions. People were always curious, sometimes in a positive way and sometimes in a critical way. I got used to being an adult at first. I had to answer a lot of questions that the answers to many as a young child could not be expected or even know the answers. But to me, it doesn’t matter what others think of us. I have always been so proud of my father and our small family that even when it seemed that society was against us, we could find refuge in the beautiful home that Dad and Dad built. ”

Of course, it didn’t take long for Chelsea to be distinguished by their peers. “From a very young age, even at the age of three, I can already say that my family was different. Once I was on the playground and building a sand castle with another little girl and she asked me where my mother was. I told her I didn’t have a mother, I had two fathers and she replied, ‘Either you have a mother or she’s dead!’ It made me laugh and I turned it off, but man oh man, kids can be cruel. It was from this kind of interaction or really anytime someone asked me where my mother was that I knew there was something different about my family, but it never took me away. I’ve always been proud to show my parents. “The novelty soon faded and her parents became a favorite in the school district.” Didn’t bother so much for being there. My father was always by my side. He was either the president of the parent / teacher association or worked in my classroom. He was a fixture at the school I attended, and my dad was never far away. My parents were parents you can count on, and the funny thing is, they eventually became the oldest married couple in my school. Most of my friends’ parents were divorced, so my parents were a source of stability for many of my friends. “

Chelsea find it interesting to try to build their own identity in a world that has always been defined by their parents. “It’s one of those things that is hard to explain and I think I’ve struggled with it all my life. One of the things I was able to do as a child and adolescent was to tap into what I was passionate about and always have parents who were supportive of what I wanted to do. Made a stand for me. My parents helped me post ads when I wanted to start a dog walking business. They were always happy to support me in whatever I wanted to do, which meant I wanted to show the world how much my dad was. Incredible and they can raise a great child. This obsession to be perfect, though, means that I’ve never rebelled, so as an adult I’m still working on a lot about building my identity. However, I think part of that And naturally because in every chapter of our lives we always change and shape to determine who we are and how we want to show the world. He is constantly stimulated by the possibility of growth and change. “Defining and redefining self-improvement and my sense of self-worth is probably my two favorite words. I love to give a definition of everything that gives me the ability to live that part of my life completely and authentically. Everything, how I The labels I’ve been given since I defined success and achievement have given me so much grace and the ability to understand who I am and what I have to offer the world. It is really important to constantly check in with our emotions in any given situation. For so long I have wanted people to like me so badly that I tend to accept their likes and dislikes regardless of what I enjoy. It may sound daunting, but checking in with my emotions as often as possible has helped me a lot to solidify who I am, what my time is worth, and what I enjoy. “

This inspiration spreads in the desire to help and guide others. “I decided to become a life coach because, when I often give people life advice, I’m afraid I’m not necessarily doing things that will help them achieve the maximum growth possible. I wanted to gain insight into how to support people in my community online through my book and in my daily life. “Living freely is the key to laying the foundation for a more empathetic world.” A big part of showing kindness and empathy is tapping into your empathy. Doing, constantly showing for yourself and others, setting sympathetic boundaries, being honest and being honest with yourself. I think it’s easier said than done, but an easy way to get started is to focus on how we can fully interact with people. Think about how we can give our full attention to someone by keeping our phone and listening to what they have to say, without thinking about how we can respond or what we want to do. It is also vital that we take care of ourselves, whatever it is for you, so that we can go to earth and feel at rest and more humane. We know when we are kind and compassionate and when we are not. The strategy is to focus and ask yourself the question- ‘How can I be more kind or sympathetic in this example?’ Keep asking yourself questions and keep checking in. “When your good intentions radiate from within, there is no limit to the impact you can have.

Read more Celebrity interviews At
Chelsea Austin describes growing up with two gay fathers in the 90’s in a new book, “Of course I am”. Photo Credit: Hannah Rumel.